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Thursday, January 28, 2010

Solution to the Problem of Baby Dumping

haiiii..Zura and Syiraa..how are you today?? today I want suggest several precautions of baby dumping. There are three find way to solve this problem . Firstly, precautions by parents. Secondly, precautions by school and teacher and lastly, precautions by goverment. I think we can share opinion in detail about precautions of baby dumping...

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blog member's said...

In my opinion, sex education is the key to solve this problem.Sex education is not only about the mechanics of sex but also learning how to respect our bodies and one another. It need not encourage promiscuity, but properly taught can encourage abstinence till marriage and not falling for the “if you love me, you will have sex with me” line. It is needed to encourage responsible sexual behavior and avoid unwanted pregnancies that couses baby dumping.

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blog member's said...

but parents should not just leave it to the teachers but take it upon themselves (no matter how embarassing) to have frank discussions of responsible sexual behaviour with their kids. After all we want the best for our kids and want to protect them in every possible way, don’t we?as a parents its our responsibility to make sure that's issus didnt happen to our son's.

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blog member's said...

Yeaahh Zura..I agree..parents must responsibility on children. At the same time, parents must checking in on them at events, lessons, sport activity and so on. So, parents can't leave responsible to the teacher. I think parents must let they know it they make a mistake and say to the that however something bad happens to them. I think this way can control children..

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January 30, 2010 12:29 AM

blog member's said...

Syira and Zura..In addition, I think parents should give some exposure about sex. I mean parents should inform negative impact doing extra-marital sex. Furthermore, for Islamic religion, parents must inform extra-marital sexual relations is illegal. Might be and this way can help this problem reduced...

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blog member's said...

Sory, i,m late for give my opinion because i buzy with association. Yeah, I agree your opinion emma but i want add your ideas. Furthermore, parent is near to them. So, parent is role model in shaping their personality. Beside that, parent need give upbringing to child about moral since small. Early care so important. If child was tought from small with good valeu, they would not be involved with wrongdoing such as baby dumping.

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blog member's said...

never mind Syira..you can comment at anytime..I think parents also must provide religious education so that children know good and bad matter. Besided that, parents should know whom their children friend so that their children friendless with social people..as I told before this parents must know all their children's activity..this can control their children's movement not to trapped with bad element...

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blog member's said...

Discussing about sexual education, it’s must be given from an early age, to teach people what sex is, the difference between sex and love, the responsibility of choosing to have sex, how to have safe sex, and the various consequences of unsafe sex. This should be complemented with moral or religious education as all of you said before, I think its better and society also has to learn to be less judgmental and more compassionate to prevent them from abandoning their newborns.

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blog member's said...

As we all know, dumping are crimes, but did’nt all of us know that these acts are also cries for help. Sometimes they dump their baby because they may feel that there is no one they can turn to for help. But we must show that communities can take steps to prevent baby dumping by giving mothers support and reassurance. And let they know place such as children’s care centres is the better place to turn for their problem, without take unmoral way like dumping their baby.

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blog member's said...

Zura..I do not agree with your opinion by hold a nursery thrown away. in my opinion. be provided that care place case possibility baby dumping increasingly rampant. This is because if that youth pregnant out of wedlock, they responsible | do not want and put that baby in care centre. This will add more burden of the government because forced accommodate expenses that babies.

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blog member's said...

yup,but did't you think that it's a better way to save the baby and prevent them from dumped their baby at toilet, garbage or someplace like that, which can give risk to the baby. syira,what do you think?

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blog member's said...

Yes, i agree with you zura. But i want add some ideas. This way better in short time but not long time. I think, the baby need protection for their grow up. Add the sometimes,goverment must resolve that problem.

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blog member's said...

I are not disapproved by your opinion. but if thought again, shelter created such as give support or encouragement to teenagers want remove that baby.


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blog member's said...

emma,that's did'nt mean we support that cases but what's important is to make sure that baby is safe.it's not only the solution because precaution by family also one's of the best way , "If a girl gets pregnant, it is important for the parents to accept the reality and give the necessary support. Sensitization that would remove all the stigma(stigma where due to tradition and religion, pregnancy before marriage is negatively perceived) should be done at all levels, at schools, homes, health centres, churches and communities. I think that’s the good solution to prevent this cases.

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blog member's said...

Besides that, young mothers who are mostly the culprits should be sensitised on what to do when faced with situations that would lead them to dumping a baby.i think that's better and best solution to the problem of baby dumping.

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blog member's said...

Salam..Zura n Syira, today i would like discuss about solution to the problem of baby dumping by school and teachers..Ermmm I think one of the social institution can prevent this issue is school and teacher. At school, teacher can teach good values to students. Through that lesson, students may not involved in social activity. Furthermore, teacher also teach religious education for students. This education can make student compare between good and bad matter. For example, act of adultery which brought to baby dumping was one sinful act large. So, student will realise and prevent social activity. This lessen can prevant of problem baby dumping.

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blog member's said...

Hai Zura and Emma, have all of you read news about baby girl found in mall dump? I'm so sad when I read that news. Why her mother do that? Why their mother dumped their babies? Do you think, it's happened because they lake on religious knowlegde? Refer to the statment from Datuk Dr Abdul Munir Yaacob, Universiti Malaya Senior Research Fellow advised the individual exspecially younger generation to be more knowledgeable and hold on to the teachings of Islam to avoid giving in to desires. This is very important because that situasion can't happened. Futhermore, Islam not likes muslim makes something did't allowed in Islam and it's call "amar makruf nahi mungkar". I think not Islam but all religion did't allow this issues because it's a sin.

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blog member's said...

yeah i already read that news, that's really disgusting..so we must stand together to find the best solution to the problem of baby dumping. i agree with statement Datuk Dr Abdul Munir Yaacob that individual exspecially younger generation to be more knowledgeable and hold on to the teachings of Islam (especially to the muslims)to avoid giving in to desires.

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blog member's said...

Emma and syira I want suggest some solution to prevent this problem. Government include legislative actions must established 'safe houses'-public centers such as police stations, and other public areas where women can bring unwanted children rather then leaving them in trash receptacles. The hope is that, by offering an alternative to abandonment, women might leave their children with people who can help the baby.

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blog member's said...

hai zura and emma, I'm come back. I want to suggest about solutian to the problem of baby dumping. I think society should no disdain to this problem. We dont accused or point finger on certain parties but they must instead participate help resolve that problem. for example is they can advise.

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blog member's said...

Zura and Syira, I want increase about prevent to stranger. I think educated children about how to protect themselves from stranger is a good ways through school based prevention program. It is viewed by student or anyone else as another viable tool that should be used in the fight against to prevent them from be a victim of raped. Therefore, one of the prevention steps which have to be done by the school is by holding their self means of defense. Through the programs, the student will know what the self means of defense from stranger is and it can help them to protect.

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blog member's said...

Hai zura and emma, good morning. Sory...Today, I want give solution about to the problem baby dumping. I think, individual (who throw the baby)must get counseling in various aspects such as give spirit, advise and other. Besides that, Studies show that only two things are truly effective in lowering teen pregnancy rates: counseling and readily available contraception. Normall, many baby dumping baby dumping happened involving teenager. What do you think? are you agree my opinion?

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blog member's said...

I want add my opinion. I feel the government should enforcing law on baby dumping. This' very important because every time many case every time found baby case happened. I think law very effectively toby resolve this problem. Besides that, i feel must need campaign "say no to baby dumping" to the public. In addition, Rosmah Mansor, wife of Prinister said it is possible to set up a cooperation network to tackle the problem. Women, Family and Community Development Minister Shahrizat Abdul Jalil has instructed all Welface Department officer to be on a 24 hour standby to provide assistance to prevent baby dumping.

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blog member's said...

i agree with you syira,campain is important and good ways to solve this problem. Campain such as sticker to tell mothers not to throw their babies into dumpsters, and by this article it's hope of dissuading mothers from abonding their babies. and its realy hapenpen in Orasi Calif. it's better for our country to follow this solution.

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blog member's said...

I agree with all of you but I want add addition about parents role. I think parents must become their children no.1 teacher it refer to educators say that parental involvement is key to children's success in school. Besided that, if parents want children to grow up with good value, parents must had better start teaching them yourself. Instilling religious value is also the responsibilty of parents. Furthermore, if children are not taught how to forge successful relationship with others, they will face challenges in school and laters in life. it is time parents became their children's no.1 teacher.


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blog member's said...

zura and syira..I want tell all of you about mass media handle this issue. we could use the medium of television to educate teenagers and set the stage for more personal discussions in homes and schools. Suitable sex therapists or psychologist could be presenters of a special programme on sex education. This could be scheduled later at night aimed at parents and educators. Simultaneously, urban and rural homes will be reached. To reach out to people in small groups, town by town, will be tedious and may not attract the desired audience. It would also be costly and slow.


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blog member's said...

i agree with you because parents and mass media they are nearest to teenagers and best way to communicate about how to protect their self and not involved in anything that can take them to this problem. mass media also important to give advise and what to do when involved in this situation.

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blog member's said...

besides that, NGO (Non-Governmental Organisation) also must stand together with government to solve this problem.


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blog member's said...

hai Syira, i felt very sad after reading and listening about recently cases of abondoned babie. i agree it's about time that the government took this matter seriously. the baby hatch is indeed a good way to help single mother who cannot afford to take care of their babies. this will resolve the problem at source, and i'm grateful to the organisation that is planning to set it up. sex education will also address the issues of teenagers pregnancies.

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blog member's said...

Yeah, your right emma. NGO was another good solution to the problem of baby dumping. But i want add ideas about sex education because i met a article relating this solution. Refer to article said teach sex education in school, be-seeshes everyone from the activist to the minister of women, family and community develpment. Datuk Shahrizat Abdul Jalil urged for sex edication to be introduced. And on and on it goes.

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blog member's said...

Syira,i want add some information about sex education. I think sex education must be taught simply because a lot of children are starting to have sex as early as 10and frankly, many of them do not know what they doing. Besides that, teacher are the best people to help them understand things.. However, sex education will not help curb social ills among the young. The onus is on the parents to keep an eye on their children and their activities. So, I believe sex education could help reduce the number of abandoned babies. It's high time society lifted the taboo about discussing sexual intercourse because the shy facade maintained over this matter will only result in more abandoned babies.


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blog member's said...

there were fewre incidences of teen pregnancies and abandoned babies in the old days when responsible, gentlementy and courteous behavior towards women was consider the hallmark of good upbringing among young boys and men.but, that is a bygone rea before the advent of gender equality, when young boys and men assumed a more responsible, protective and gentlemanly role towards what they then considered to be the weaker sex. such gracious, refined, honest and responsible relationship between the sexes evoked and admiration for each other. there is need for noble and gracious behaviour to be resurrected and reinforced in school so that it becomes a cultural norm.and we could adopt some good aspects of foreign culture such as the teaching and reinforcing of courtesy, mutual respect and gracious between boys and girl, with some modifications if nesessary to suit our culture. reinforcing good behaviour and honesty can act as a bulwark agains shameful behaviour that result in unwanted teen pregnancies.

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