Hye..My Friends..today I want discuss about the causes of baby dumping...
In my opinion the main causes of baby dumping is parents role. I think nearest person with teenagers is parents, so only parents can curve their son's behavior. If their parents can't give good education to their son's, is not impossible their son's can't compare between true all false. So that's not impossible teenagers can interupe to the phenomenon baby dumping...
Saturday, January 9, 2010
CAUSES OF BABY DUMPING
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Emma, I agree with your opinion that parents must pay a lot attention to their son’s, especially about moral education, but in my opinion not only moral education is the main role that causes baby dumping phenomenon because the other role such as internet, television also one of the cause behind baby dumping. There are still some of us who do not understand the real meaning of sex. Consequently, certain abuses take place. In the web for example, we have the cyber sex which is getting a lot of attention especially from the teenagers. We cannot of course prevent them from chatting in the web or engaging into cyber dates since the internet has proven its worth in terms of socialization and communication. That’s easy to interupe teenage to the sex without marriage and then, when they make sex and pregnant without married, the problems (pregnant un-married) that could make one get confused and decide to do things that cannot be done by a normal human being,so that’s why some women decide to dump their children.
NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA (A123461)
Besides that, baby dumping phenomenon also happen when unwed girls find themselves pregnant,afraid to tell their parents about unwanted pregnant and their don’t know what to do, so the best thing in their mind is throw out their baby’s without feel guilty because its only the way to solve their problem..
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
syira and Zura...
I think low living standard cause that teenagers take road cut to get money by working as prostitute. Due to that job, that possibility of teenagers will be pregnant and remove that baby without guilt...
what do you think zura and syira???
I want all of you give respon my comment....
ROSZAIMA ROSDI (A123277)
I agree with zura but I want share about my opinion. I think, the causes of baby dumping is a their afraid for face to face with society. May be, their will being humiliated by the community. So, their feel for doing baby dumping. The purpose is a can't ashamed. Are you agree with my opinion?
NORSYAHIRAH BINTI MD.YAZID (A122786)
And than about Emma opinion, I have one question with your ideas. How on the other case such as rape case? I feel baby dumping doesn't involving prostitution only but the baby dumping also involves another case. Zura, what is you comment?
NORSYAHIRAH BINTI MD.YAZID (A122786)
yeah,i agree with u emma,but for your information not only prostitute throw ut their babys because its involved who have standard profesion and as syira said,we must look it at the other perspective such as rape, because it's is not their false and make sex without their permission.so when they pregnant, they choose to throw out their baby's because when look at baby, make their trauma.
if see perspective as rape, i think that teenagers can give baby to others take care of him or pass to social welfare house. Even, i think have no cause to remove baby. Maybe, could care for baby with parents support. Besided that, teenagers no need shyness because all which happen this sure be his wisdom.
ROSZAIMA ROSDI A 123277
yeah,you're right emma..but,if their keep this tragedy (rape)as a secret,and their must find way to solve this problem without evebody knows..so their make desicion to throw out their baby's.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
and this case really happen at Kedah in Mac 2009, which that students involved alleged be rape victims in capital when go back for a holiday but she don’t report that incident to her families and police. The student secret giving birth to child out of wedlock uncovered when she complained have stomach ache before their teacher bring her to the hospital. However doctor decided, actually she don’t have stomach ache but new give birth and after being persuaded of her teacher and doctor, she's finally admitted childbirth and throw her baby behind school. So from that case we know, baby dumping not only happen and doing by who involved in social phenomenon but from the rape victim.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
In the article i just read about "Baby-dumping and Infanticide" say, that’s issues (dumped their baby) happen because new mothers, especially young mothers (under age) may feel overwhelmed by the idea of parenthood. They may have difficulty coping with the drastic physical and emotional changes they are experiencing. They may be suffering from the
depression sometimes brought on by the hormonal changes associated with giving birth. They may be convinced that they will be unable to provide for the child, and they may feel that there is no one they can turn to for help. They also may fear the shame of having given birth outside of marriage, or they may fear that they will be unable to continue their studies if anyone knows about that. So none of these feelings can excuse they from throw their baby.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
But it’s dependts to the situation,and some of the other factors is their mother's leading to the children abandonment included early pregnancies, rejection by male partners claimed to have fathered the children, scolding by parents, poverty, and broken marriages. Besides that, unwanted pregnancies also has been one of the major causes of baby dumping, this is because most of these young ladies are not prepared to take care of the children.
NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA (A123461)
ooo,that a good idea. I feel maybe they think that best solution to their problem. Beside that, I want give opinion. Refer to news, Datuk Hassan Ahmad said who dump and kill their babies because they failed to control their emotions dan this contributes to their past sin of committing adultery.
NORSYAHIRAH BINTI MD.YAZID(A122786)
Beside that,I also take statment from Universiti Malaya Senior Research Fellow Datuk Dr Abdul Monir Yaacob.From the statment, he said declining value of the family institution led to babies being dumped. So, from that statment,we know that family institution is one's causes of baby dumping.
NORSYAHIRAH BINTI MD.YAZID(A122786)
yup, you'r right Syira, besides that,baby dumping also causes because she's victim of rape by the strange. This can related to the issue in Kedah which student was rape by the stranger when go back for a holiday but she didn’t report that incident to her families and police. That incident (rape) causes that student pregnant without anyone else know. However, the student secret giving birth to child out of wedlock uncovered when she complained have stomach ache before their teacher bring her to the hospital and doctor decided she’s actually didn’t have stomach ache but new give birth and after being persuaded of her teacher and doctor, she's finally admitted childbirth and throw her baby behind school. So from that case we know, baby dumping not only happen and doing by who involved in social phenomenon but causes from the rape victim.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
Another factor that cause of baby dumping is family break-up. Family break-ups happen after a long period of misunderstandings, fighting and unhappiness. Sometimes they happen suddenly and it is hard to understand why there needs to be change at all. Children are mostly affected by this kind of situation. If both their mother and father decided to a divorce and one cannot raise their child alone, tendency is that they will abandon their child. This child will become homeless and found himself alone and interrupt with social problem such as sex without married. Lastly when they’re pregnant and born they choose to dump their babies without feel guilty because maybe they don’t understand the importance of a child in a family.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
As you(emma)said before poverty also another factor that causes baby dumping but i want talk in detail about that.Persons in cultures with poor social welfare systems who are not financially capable of taking care of a child are more likely to throw their babies. Political conditions, such as can the lack of institutions, such as orphanages, to take in children whom their parents cannot support may also contribute to child abandonment. Societies with strong social structures and liberal adoption laws tend to have lower rates of baby dumping.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
but,we must look at the other perspective such as their tradition allowed to married after pregnant and pregnant without married is not "taboo" in their society. so if they pregnant without married it's not a big problem and can gave birth their baby without feel guilty. That's different in malay traditions and Islam religion not allowed pregnant without married. maybe that's perspective causes they to dumped their babies. But that's not mean they must solve this problem by throw their babies.(sorry if other religion also not allowed to pregnant without married, because i just look in Islam and malay perspective)
NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA
owhh really Zura..I never think about this causes before. Hopefully, group Malay aware on this matter and take care of behaviour so that religion only that looked down at Islamic religion.
ROSZAIMA BT ROSDI A123277
yeah emma,me too..and i want add some information and statement from Dr Boulton. Dr. Boulton said that mothers who throw their babies normally do so under desperate circumstances. “Having one’s first child is the most stressful experience someone can go through. Young mothers can be vulnerable, especially if they are alone and do not have the experience or social support to cope.”refer to this article so we know when they are under desperate they might do unnormal thing.
(NURAZURAINI BINTI MUSTAPA A123461)
Right Zura, I think mother to throw their babies because she ashmed and not ready to be a mother.. Besides that, she did't married yet..
ROSZAIMA BT ROSDI A123277
Yeah,it true zura and emma. Normally,they are under desperate they might do unnormal thing because they are under pressure. Some case, they ashamed with society
NORSYAHIRAH BINTI MD.YAZID(122786)
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